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Post by espíritu del lago on Wed Aug 17, 2016 9:27 am

Dammittt exclamation point!###

Well ...You"re Alive!!

Everybody Is dead or dying!

I"m not!

Bitch me out!!

Next!! Go Ahead !

Bring it !
Why do I even care exclamation!

Uhhguggh..
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Post by slainte39 on Wed Aug 17, 2016 10:18 am

Did you fall off the wagon???..... Very Happy

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Post by espíritu del lago on Wed Aug 17, 2016 4:30 pm

No, A close family member has pancreatic cancer stage 5, and her daughter has cancer too. Just upset! And a very close friend is dying too.. I wish I didn't care but I do!

I can't make them well..

It just sucks, that's all.. Thank for replying..


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Post by espíritu del lago on Wed Aug 17, 2016 4:42 pm

They weren't smokers or drinkers. They're good people, it just pisses me off!

They did everything you're supposed to do.. it's not fair..  I don't know what I can do.. I'm here if they need anything..

I offered anything and everything all they need to do is tell me or ask.. Sometimes it's better to let them do their thing. I don't want to intrude...

I just feel lost and normally I know what to do and do it.. this is different it's too close...
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Post by espíritu del lago on Wed Aug 17, 2016 4:46 pm

I cried most of the night and grown men aren't supposed to do that.

What do I do? Any ideas?
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Post by slainte39 on Wed Aug 17, 2016 5:06 pm

You are facing one of life's insurmountable crisis. There is nothing you can do but suffer and pray that time will lessen the grief.
You have my sympathy and the understanding of what your situation is.

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Post by espíritu del lago on Wed Aug 17, 2016 5:13 pm

Thank you S. (Auto correct )

I guess I better get rest so when needed I'll be mentally/physically ready.
I know its coming...

I'll do everything I can...



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Post by oncesubtle on Wed Aug 17, 2016 5:46 pm

slainte39 wrote:You are facing one of life's insurmountable crisis. There is nothing you can do but suffer and pray that time will lessen the grief.

You have my sympathy and the understanding of what your situation is.

Well said slainte, thanks for defining the sympathy I' m sure we all feel.
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Post by ferret on Wed Aug 17, 2016 6:20 pm

Cancer is a first class Bitch all right. Please fall apart later but, in the meantime, do all that you can to make them comfortable and do things to stop them from dwelling on their misery. Tell a joke, play the fool, buy groceries for them, cook for them, clean for them. Just hold their hand and talk about memories. Don't wait for them to ask.
I understand and sympathize.
Don't punch or kick the wall...it hurts.
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Post by espíritu del lago on Wed Aug 17, 2016 8:39 pm

Yes.. I will...
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Post by Rosa Venus on Wed Aug 17, 2016 9:43 pm

So sorry you're going through this. Feeling powerless/impotent when someone you love is in serious danger - whether disease related or caused by something else - is the worst feeling I know.
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